Massage Creeper article on Bored Panda

As massage therapists, we’ve got a pretty good thing going on in general. Clients come in tight or sore, and we make them feel better by the time they walk out the door. Barefoot massage is deep but comfortable and can put muscles back in place where they belong. Hands-on massage therapists provide pain relief as well, and relaxation.

For that, people are grateful.

But sometimes we get “Creepers”- typically men (not always, I’m sure) who ask things like if they can inspect our feet to make sure they are pretty enough for ashiatsu. In the 20 years that I’ve been doing massage, no one has asked to inspect my hands.

Or perhaps they ask what we are wearing or if we are the person in the photo on our website or ad. Once someone asked me in person how much I weighed.

Most massage therapists have dealt with this in one way or another, unfortunately. I was fortunate that our instructors talked about this in massage school. In our FasciAshi Fundamentals class, our instructors talk about what’s legit and what’s too creepy in regards to our massage with feet.

Some inquiries are no doubt legitimate or have been asked out of curiosity, but there are ridiculously blatant ones as well.

Head on over to Bored Panda, where we’ve got our “Dear Massage Creeper” article live. It’s a letter many massage therapists are currently rejoicing over and are wanting to share with others.

What kind of weird or creepy things have happened to you in regards to massage? Also, if you have tips to share in how to handle weirdos, please do!

Leave a comment below then share this with a friend.

Barefoot Massage Class Instructor Spotlight: Sara Newberry

Sara in St. Louis is the owner of Sole Shine Barefoot Massage, located in an eclectic neighborhood in St. Louis. Fun fact: she has a very large painted plaster foot outside her office (see it in the photo of her studio)!

Your name

Sara Newberry 

Tell us about your pets.

2 Cats- Sully & Weekend (Their names came from the shelter. Weekend is unusual and I thought surely my kids would change her name but it stuck. She came in with a litter on the weekend (hence her name) but her brothers and sisters were all named Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday, and Weekend We ended up with Weekend) 1 Dog- Mickey. He’s super old and barks a lot

Tell us about your family!

I have 2 kids, 1 stepdaughter. I’m a single mom of two with an amazing partner named Stephen. My mom passed away almost 3 years ago and I’ve been a guide for others going through the grief process since then. 

What did you want to be when you grew up and why?

Barefoot Massage Training Instructor Spotlight: Hillary Arrieta

Today’s Barefoot Massage Instructor spotlight is coming at you from Richardson, TX, a suburb of Dallas. Say hello to Hillary!

Your name

Hillary Arrieta

Tell us about your puppies.

I have two dogs, Winnie (Maltese mix age 11) Luna (Great Pyrenees mix age 3). Both are girls. (And she shamelessly puts capes on them sometimes).

Tell us about your family too!

NAH…hahah! Just kidding. My husband and I have been married for 10 years and we love to do things with our dogs and travel when we can. He has a nerdy job with a company where he makes 3D printed collectibles and props for movies.  

What did you want to be when you grew up and why?

I wanted to work for myself because I have a strong need for autonomy. It’s also in my blood. My grandpa owned his own service station for 50 years in the small town where my mom grew up and I always looked up to him.

Where do you teach?

I teach in a suburb of Dallas, Texas called Richardson at my workshop space at Gaia Bodywork.

What’s cool about your city?

Richardson is a great place to EAT. Especially if you like a large variety for all different kinds of food. 

Which classes do you teach?

I teach FUNdamentals, Fijian, and the Relax track classes (currently Hot Ashi).

How has doing barefoot massage changed your career?

It’s made me enjoy massage therapy so much more. I don’t get bored and I feel like it’s creative and challenging every day. I use my mind and my body which I think helps to keep me engaged.

What do you love about teaching barefoot massage?

I love seeing my students get excited. For some of them, It’s been a long time since they’ve felt passionate about their career. I feel like I get to be a part of bringing that spark back to their massage practice.

Other than doing barefoot massage until you die, what would you do when it comes time to retire?

Move to Costa Rica, be a beach bum, and chill out with a billion dogs on the beach. 

Hobbies?

Herbalism and kitchen witchery, reading, walking, gardening, and skin care. 

Can you drive a stick shift, scooter, motorcycle, boat? (If so, what? Or any other random thing you can drive.

Nope. hahah!

Any tips to keep yourself healthy as a massage therapist?

I think sleep is super important because I need that regeneration time and also taking breaks to keep a healthy mindset. 

What’s a random thing that most people don’t know about you?

I use to take syncronized swimming classes growing up. I don’t think you can get any more random than that! HAHA!

What are your favorite foods?

Pizza.

Where have you been published?

ThriveGlobal.com

✓ Spotlight on Fijian Massage

Where can people schedule an appointment with you? 

🌎At Gaia in Richardson! (Note: Mary-Claire here. I had a client who visited Hillary when he was in town for a wedding. He LOVED his barefoot massage!)

🌎 Find Hillary at the Center for Barefoot Massage 

🌎 Texas Ashiatsu: Instagram

🌎 GaiaBodywork: Instagram


Hillary’s official bio:

Hillary Arrieta is a holistic wellness expert, licensed massage therapist, industry educator, and small business owner. She specializes in barefoot massage and Ayurvedic therapies to help her health-conscious clients reach their wellness goals.

Located in Dallas, Texas, Hillary’s customized sessions are infused with Western herbalism, aromatics, mediation, and restorative bodywork to ease her clients towards radiance and joyful living.

Hillary has taught massage therapists since 2008 from the basic certification program to her own workshops at Gaia Bodywork. Hillary has the honor of teaching as an approved instructor for the Center for Barefoot Massage. She strives to create an organized and comfortable learning environment.

Learn Barefoot Massage with Spotlight Instructor: Sharon Bryant

Today’s Barefoot Massage Training Instructor spotlight is Sharon, our multi-faceted hoola hooping, pirating, ukelele playing instructor, who is a whiz at creating pickled concoctions.

Your name:

Sharon Bryant (no, I’m not related to Bear Bryant, that we know of…)

Pets?

Maddie and Gypsy, my precious rescued fur babies (dogs). Gypsy is our little girl, a black lab mix that is around 8 years old. She came to us so frightened we had to adopt another dog to break through her fear of EVERYTHING.

After an entire year working with her, she still couldn’t take a treat from my hand. Maddie is our big girl. We adopted her from the pound where she’d been incarcerated for half of her short little life (she was about 6 months old). She was on the list for euthanization and we sprung her literally two days before it was her time. She is now around 6.5 years old. She’s a boxer, German shepherd, rottweiler mix and is an awesome dog. They are both ROTTEN.

FasciAshi is not easy

Myofascial Ashiatsu is not easy. Even our ‘beginner’ class, FasciAshi Fundamentals, is really hard. There is a lot of anatomy knowledge that we expect out of our students. Although the work will get much easier with practice, these first 3 days in class are definitely challenging on your mind, body, and ego.

You’ll be massaging for two full hours in a row every day, plus learning to massage with a new tool (your feet – which is SO much harder than it looks) and then somehow massage a client using everything we learned over 2 days boiled down into a 90 minute session on the 3rd day. THAT’S FREAKIN HARD!!

Why?

I want our students to understand WHY the angles and approach to each stroke are in place, so that the work doesn’t turn into a mindless smearing of lotion, or result in injury. I don’t just want you to look good doing the work and have cool Instagram pictures, I want you to get the intention of the stroke down so that your clients feel the full potential of the technique. If you can understand why ‘Lateral Leg 2’ uses a certain foot to massage as it posteriorly tilts the clients pelvis while bending their knee, then you can use that particular stroke, or parts of that stroke, intuitively on the clients who “knead” it most… Not just because it’s the next item on the list of massage strokes that you are ‘supposed’ to do.

Methods get muddy when you don’t understand the theory or reason behind them.

What we are trying to teach in class helps you offer the pain relieving, stress reducing healing that the public is looking for… the expectations your clients and future clients have for therapeutic massage can be met under YOUR FEET.

FasciAshi requires MINDFULNESS, but in the process of being a student again, it really does fill your mind, and can be overwhelming.

I know that its hard.

If it were easy, it wouldn’t be called Continuing Education.

Don’t give up.

Lervvvv Jeni

Spotlight on Fijian Barefoot Massage

You may have noticed that the Center for Barefoot Massage recently added a few new classes this year. One that I’m really excited about teaching is Fijian Barefoot Massage. This style is such a great addition to our company and having the original creator, Lolita Knight’s blessing to teach her original work and carry on her legacy has been a true honor for us. The Center for Barefoot Massage has done this technique right by putting more theory and intention behind the original format, which makes for an exciting and engaging class.

You may be asking two very important questions.

One, what IS it and two, how is it different from what I’m already doing with Ashiatsu and FasciAshi? (Bonus: how is it different than Hot Ashi?! Read this.)

Fijian massage is a deep tissue barefoot style of massage that’s done with the client fully clothed on a mat on the floor. It uses movements and techniques that are specific to its unique style. The original creator of this massage, Lolita Knight took influence from her massage experiences while visiting Fiji.

Stools-which is the best for barefoot massage?

All of our instructors have a preference for the type of stools they use in their own personal practice. Today I’m talking about the one that stays at the head of your table by the headrest. (If you want to learn more about the different step stools we use, you can read about that here.)

You have plenty of options, but I’ll go over some of the stools our instructors have been using in the last 17+ years, what we like and don’t like about them.

There are many choices available. In large, what we get tends to be based on 3 things:

1. what we can afford
2. how it looks
3. its sturdiness

Typically, we prefer to use a standard height 24″ stool for both the standing and seated work. Old school barefoot therapists often needed 2 stools-1 for standing and the other for seated work.

However, it’s ridiculously easy to add a bolster to increase height for seated work if you don’t have an electric table but you want to be higher.

Stability is your #1 priority.

How it looks should be secondary to that. With that being said, you need to get what you can afford.

As with setting up your bars, the use of the stool may be individual to each barefoot therapist and room setting.

Affordability, surface area, tipability factor

Many walls have baseboards at the floor, which affects the stability of stools, the “tipability factor”. Baseboards may be thin rubber, relatively thin wood or custom thicker wood (which is what I have in my office).

You are more likely to have a problem with the stool tipping if you don’t stand in the center of it, and the edge of the stool is not by the wall.

I’ve been on the receiving end of a stool tilt. I don’t recommend it. 😉

You can always add a bumper (pool noodle or pipe foam) for stability.

Classic round bar stool
The least expensive is a classic round stool. I used to get them from Bed Bath and Beyond with a 20% off or $5 off coupon. They are currently retailed at $39.99. Legs that are square are more stable than those that are round.

Pros: price, classic and simple 1990’s look, easily able to find at local stores or thrift shops, a round meditation bolster fits on it well
Cons: easy to tip, tends to get wobbly over time (I’ve seen some wobble within a day)

Saddle stool 
These stools usually start at $69 and go up substantially from there. Less expensive ones are more likely to wobble and fall apart quickly while spendier versions will be around for years.

They can be found at many stores in your area.

Because they are rectangular, you have more stable footing than with the round stool.

Most often found in painted black or natural wood tone, I have seen these in periodically in vibrant colors such as red also.

Jeni’s tip: short therapists can turn the stool perpendicular to the wall and add a bolster behind his/her back to get themselves closer to the client if needed.

Pros: look nice, can be purchased in a variety of colors, easily able to find at local stores, can be used perpendicularly with bolster
Cons:  inexpensive ones are often poorly made and can fall apart quickly, can tip easily if you’re not standing correctly & have a baseboard

Padded saddle stool
For about a week, I used a rectangular stool with built-in padding but didn’t care for it. I found it unwieldy to swing my leg over it when seated. Because the stool wasn’t meant for standing on, my foot quickly imprinted on the foam padding, making it uneven within a week of using it.

Pros: you don’t need an additional bolster
Cons: the seat’s not meant for standing, can wobble if built poorly, probably has buttons on the top of the cushion

Tolix style stool
Why are they called “Tolix”?  They were first designed in 1934 by Xavier Pauchard for the French Company Tolix.

These square stools can be found both in metal and metal with a wooden seat and are often seen at restaurants and bars with outdoor seating.

They are sturdy, can be found in a huge variety of colors ranging from white or aqua to red or black.

If you order online, you may have to put them together, or you can find them at places like Target (which is where this particular one came from).

They’re often $69+, and sometimes you can only find them in sets of 4.

The square seat gives you oodles of room for your feet, and there’s plenty of space for a classic round meditation bolster.

Pros: very sturdy and stable, solidly built, available in a wide variety of colors
Cons: feels cold on your feet (even through a towel) as the stool is made of metal

Tolix style stool with back
I purchased the Tolix style stools with the backs to help students prevent tipping while standing during barefoot massage .

Like the others, these are metal with the seat made from bamboo. These came as a 4 pack from Amazon.

Having the back may be overkill, but they look nice (and they’re my favorite so far.) The round meditation bolster stays on well-it kind of snuggles into the back and doesn’t slip around.

The other Tolix style stools are just as stable if you stand correctly, though.

Pros: very sturdy and stable, solidly built, looks nice
Cons: feels cold on your feet (even through a towel) as the stool is made of metal, pricier than others without back

Custom stools
The beauty of having a custom-made stool is that you can have it designed exactly how you want it. Whether you want at a different height or a broader base, it will be perfect for you and your space.

This welded stool has a slightly padded top and wide platform for both sitting and standing.

A past instructor who owns this stool says:

It is 25”, has a wide sturdy base and a lightly padded cleanable top. It also sits more flush with the wall since there isn’t an angle to the legs. It tips far less than other stools I’ve used.

Pros: it’s perfect for you, should be very stable
Cons:
cost can be prohibitive (this particular stool was over $200), won’t have right away, is heavy if made with metal.

At Bull City Soles in NC, our instructor Julie has had 3 stools made in a couple of different styles. They are wooden and super sturdy.

Julie’s stools at Bull City Soles in NC

Pros: they’re built to exactly your specifications, less expensive than welded stools, broad & stable base, can paint/decorate/put your logo on them
Cons: more expensive than many ready-made stools (these were about $120 each)

As you can tell, there are a lot of options for stools. Prices can range from very inexpensive (round stool at thrift store) to very pricey (custom stools) and everything in between.

Remember that stability is your priority and go from there!

What stool do you love in your barefoot massage office?


Ashiatsu Barefoot massage classes in Ohio and MichiganMary-Claire Fredette is a co-founder for the Center for Barefoot Massage and doesn’t want you to tip your stool over onto your client’s head or bang it into the wall.

Ain’t nobody got time for dat.

Find out more or take her classes (usually in Cincinnati) ranging from Fijian to Advanced and everything in between.

BAREFOOT MASSAGE OPEN 2.4: #Massage Week 4

Throughout the course of this years and last years Barefoot Massage Open, we’ve pulled out some pretty heavy challenges. I hope that todays challenge helps to answer a very common frustration that many of my mid-level students have: how do I fit it all in?!?!?!

#AshiChallenge

I think that these particular past topics will help you optimize this weeks challenge – so go review these before scrolling down too much further:

1.3: Game Face (Spend an hour with the client supine!)

1.4: Not yo’ momma’s Ashi: (Spend an hour with the client in Sidelying!)

1.5: Weight then Wait (Stop moving!)

+ Take what you learned from this years 2.2 Challenge (Xray Vision) which helped you study the structures that lay underneath the tissue you are aiming at AND revisit the last challenge I posted, 2.3 Mindfulness – where you took a long hard look at what strokes you do most often and why.

 

Got all that at fresh in your thoughts again? OK, now lets scroll down!  >>>>

BAREFOOT MASSAGE OPEN 2.5: #Mobility Week 5

The Barefoot Massage Open 2.5 #Mobility with Dawn Dotson

#AshiChallenge

Ashi Bar Pass-Thru:

  • Start off laying prone on the ground. Keep your arms extended and grip loose. See video
  • Raise the PVC pipe behind of your body . Once overhead, retract the shoulder blades down and pull behind your back.
  • You can adjust and widen your grip if that movement was too difficult. Narrow the grip if you had no difficulty executing the warmup drill. Repeat up to 10 times.
  • Modification or Isolation: Shoulder Pass-thru’s: just do one side at a time instead

Turbo Dog

While it might appear to be about strengthening your arms and back, there’s a lot more to it.

  • Start with Downward Dog: (Hold 5 Breaths)
  • On your hands (shoulder width apart) and knees (hip width apart)
  • Wrap your shoulder blades toward armpits, feel for activating chest muscles and upper back, and relax head and neck.
  • Inhale – Bend elbows 3 inches from the floor, moving them toward each other
  • Exhale – Straighten your legs and lift into Downward Dog.
  • Keep energy moving through your arms and chest, keep collarbones moving towards your feet.
  • Reach your forearms away from your wrists. Use your upper back, chest, and arms to hold the space between the bones of the shoulder joint.

Elevate & Depress Scaps during Scap pull-ups:

  • Begin in a normal pull-up position with a palms-away grip and hands shoulder-width apart.
  • From a full hang, with just slightly shrugged shoulders, you want to draw the scapula down and together, thus raising your body slightly but without bending your arms and pulling as in a regular pull-up.
    • The best learning cues are: Try to “bend the bar” and think about doing a reverse shrug (i.e. shoulders drawn downward). Do this, and you’ll feel your head shift backward and your chest raise upward, as your scapular pinch together.
  • Hold the top position for one second, then return to the starting position. The range of motion is only a few inches to a foot or two (when you get really strong!).
  • Do six to twelve reps, keeping nearly straight arms and tight spinal erectors and glutes throughout.

PULL-UPS YO!!!

Use your bars! Start with scap pull ups then pull all the way through!!!! Tighten all the things! You can do it!